In an attempt to do what I believe is the right thing, I just sent The Lawyer a long email about the nature of our communication with one another. To play fair (since our high school friends are already reading), I copied one of the entries on this blog about him into the email and hit "send."
This could either be an immense trust-building step in our friendship, or the ultimate fail, in which I basically just invited a lawyer to sue me for libel.
THE QUICK UPDATE (for Impulsive Addict!): The Lawyer said that he was sorry that he had caused me so much stress and that, if anything, he was flattered to be included on the blog. He had no idea that I found out about his marriage at dinner and said that he felt terrible about that. He thought that I already knew.
He has also promised not to read here, because he knows that I'm using this space as my free therapy outlet and says that he can respect that.